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Instead of focusing on how compatible we think one potential partner is to us, we perform joint evaluations, which make us prioritize traits that don't really matter to relationship success.Algorithmic matching services like e Harmony and Ok Cupid don't fare much better.Side-by-side comparisons lead to prioritization of irrelevant traits whereas separate evaluations allow you to more carefully think about whether each partner is a good fit.Like basically every person alive right now, I tried online dating.To be honest, I'm a skeptic when it comes to online dating.
Gian Gonzaga, senior director of research and development at e Harmony, described it as, "Imagine being in a bar and how hard it would be to find five people you might connect with.I made lots of matches, talked to lots of "interesting" men and even went on a fair number of first dates.However, after partaking in my own dating experiment, during which I went on one date every night for a week, and two dates on Friday, I finally reached my ultimate conclusion. I want to preface that for everything I say, I know there are a ton of people who will disagree, and have the relationships to prove it, but as I ventured into and out of the virtual dating sphere I found out a lot about myself.So I think it's both the medium and it's the scale.And a matchmaker only knows so many people, but there are eight million or ten million users on e Harmony." Online dating sites inherently attract singles who are seeking relationships; and with the expansive number of users, even on the basis of chance, these sites will see a large number of successful relationship formations.